The Healthy Relationship Company

Forensic and behavioural psychology for people making sense of a harmful relationship. Understand what happened, why it worked on you, and how to make sure it never works again.

The Manipulation Decoder

A 12-lesson course on the psychology of manipulation and coercive control. Built on a decade of front-line work with the people who cause this harm, it shows you the deliberate mechanics behind the behaviour that left you doubting what you'd clearly seen and heard. 

Twelve lessons, £47, yours to keep.

Decode The Behaviour

The Emotional Detox

Ten lessons for the stage where you're out and nothing has settled yet. The conversations still replay at two in the morning, you're arguing your case to someone who isn't in the room, and you can't work out why something that's over is still taking up this much of your head. This explains what your nervous system is actually doing and gives you the means to stop the spiral rather than wait it out.

Ten lessons, £47, yours to keep.

Start the Detox

The Relationship Reality Check: Join the Waitlist

The flagship programme. Seven modules of forensic and behavioural psychology covering the mechanisms behind harmful relationships, the psychology of the person causing the harm, and exactly why you responded the way you did. Waitlist members get early access and enrolment bonuses when the next cohort opens.

Join the Waitlist

Free: The Clarity Check-In Quiz

Seven questions, one honest result. Find out where you actually are in making sense of what happened, and get resources matched to that stage rather than generic advice.

Take the Quiz

Free: The Relationship Mirror Toolkit

A structured way to look at your relationship as it actually is, not as it gets explained back to you afterwards. Practical, specific, and designed for people who want evidence over reassurance.

Get the Toolkit

Free: The Values Decoder

Identify what you actually stand for, see exactly how those values were turned around and used against you, and rebuild your standards on real self-knowledge rather than good intentions.

Get the Decoder



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