Accountability Distortion: Why the Apology Changed Nothing accountability distortion apology without change coercive control cognitive distortions do they really mean it emotional abuse entitlement intimate partner abuse perpetrator psychology will they change Aug 17, 2026

You got apologies. That's the part that makes this so hard to explain to anyone who wasn't there.

Some of them were good ones. They knew exactly what they'd done and named it. They looked genuinely upset about it. There may have been tears, or a long conversation that went past midnight, or a messa...

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