There's a particular conversation you have with yourself, usually late at night or in the quiet moments when the question surfaces again. You start assembling the case. The things that happened, the way certain conversations went, the person you became around them. For a moment the picture looks cle...
There's a conversation you can probably still replay in detail. You went into it with something specific to say, something that had hurt you, and you'd thought about how to say it fairly. Ten minutes later you were the one apologising. You were reassuring them, softening what you'd said, repairing a...
One of the most consistent things people say after leaving a psychologically harmful relationship is that they weren't sure - and often still aren't sure - whether what they experienced was "bad enough" to be called abuse.
Not because nothing happened, but because what happened was complicated. The...
