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Teal Love, Decoded blog cover with handwritten script and the title ‘When Speaking Honestly Carries a Cost in Your Relationship’.
When the Problem Wasn’t What You Said - But What Happened After You Said It covert control emotional withdrawal power imbalance relationship dynamics self-doubt walking on eggshells Feb 09, 2026

She could describe the arguments in extraordinary detail.

Not just the words - the order they came in, the tone shifts, the moment the air in the room changed. She could tell you exactly which sentence escalated things, which question shut everything down, which attempt at calm explanation made it ...

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Teal illustrated cover image reading ‘Love, Decoded: When Communication Issues Aren't About Communication’.
When Communication Issues Aren't About Communication coercive control communication issues confusion in relationships emotional abuse emotional withdrawal gaslighting high functioning women love decoded power dynamics relationship clarity relationship psychology self doubt self trust unhealthy relationships Feb 05, 2026

She didn’t think of herself as someone who struggled with relationships.

That was the uncomfortable part.

Her life, on paper, worked. She worked. People trusted her. She made decisions all day long and rarely questioned them. When something went wrong, she knew how to assess it, adjust, and move f...

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