Post-Separation Abuse: Why It Doesn't Stop When You Leave
Aug 10, 2026
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Post-separation abuse is one of the most consistently documented and least well recognised patterns in domestic abuse research. It describes what happens when coercive control outlasts the relationship it operated inside.
For a long time, everyone assumed abuse was something that happened inside a ...
Why Do I Miss Someone Who Hurt Me? The Psychology of Thought Loops, Trauma Bonding, and Why You Can't Just Move On
May 18, 2026
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Why do I miss someone who hurt me - that's the question underneath almost everything in this post. You've left, or you've been out for a few months. You can see the relationship clearly enough - the pattern, the impact, what it cost you. You can articulate it. And yet your brain will
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